The Unseen Deck by Sara Menegazzi

What is “numbness” at work? Also known as emotional disconnection or going into automatic pilot (or, as I call it in Italian, the “sti cazzi" mode), this state occurs when people gradually detach from their job, tasks, colleagues, and even their own feelings. It’s that creeping sense that your voice no longer matters, your contributions have no impact, and you're just going through the motions, disengaged, detached, numb. Credits: Oscar Dario - Unsplash The insidious onset of numbness Numbness doesn't happen overnight. It typically creeps in slowly, especially among passionate collaborators who deeply care about a project. They believe in the mission, they give their all, and then, unexpectedly, something breaks and the connection fades. Employees start checking out mentally, not because they don’t care, but because they feel unvalued, unheard, invisible. Why numbness is devastating both for people and companies For anyone who cares about their work, this is one of the wor...

Have you ever been told that having a Plan B is essential? For years, I believed it too. That it’s smart to have a backup ready when Plan A doesn’t work out. But today, I want to share a different perspective: Plan B, as we often think of it, is mostly just an excuse to not fully commit to our main goal. In fact, Plan B is… useless. Plan B doesn’t exist: it’s just Plan A in disguise Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying you should stubbornly cling to the first idea no matter what. The point is this: Plan B is actually just an adaptation of Plan A. When something doesn’t work, you don’t need to “change plans.” Instead, you adjust your course while keeping your destination in sight. Think of it like navigating north with a compass. If there’s an obstacle in the way, you might need to detour east or west, but your true direction stays fixed. The secret is to have an internal compass, your mental north,  that guides you every time you need to recalibrate. Why your internal compass i...

To my younger self of five years ago You’re tired. You think you’re doing everything wrong. You question whether you made the right choice by becoming a freelance creative. You compare yourself to others who seem miles ahead. You wonder why things take so long, why you feel behind, and why you keep starting over. Here’s what I’d tell you now: You’re not behind. You’re building something real, and it takes time. Those moments when creativity feels blocked? They’re not a sign you’ve failed. They’re a sign you’re evolving. You’re learning how to lead yourself when no one’s watching. How to get back up after a slow season. How to create when the energy is low. And yes, you’ll get better at it. You’ll learn to breathe through the fog. To take micro-steps every day: a sketch, a list, a few written lines. To lean on the people who get it. To stop waiting for perfect conditions. You’ll create work you’re proud of. You’ll inspire others without even knowing it. You’ll find your rhy...